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Comprehending what they are and how to react will help you better comprehend each other's points of views and make a choice that fits everyone. When you feel distressed for a kid, it can seem very enticing to simply forgot to take your birth control pills, especially if you think he will be a great father and only needs to be put into practice.
Assure him that the kids don't matter how old their father is, provided he likes them and is interested in their life. Elder fathers are often more wise and tolerant with their kids - this is much more important than running a marriage race with them. Conversely, he must make a pledge to resume sitting down and talking seriously about it as soon as the period is up.
Say to him that you loved him and were fortunate, but having a baby would make you even more fortunate and give you both great pleasure. He' probably afraid you'll be so worried about the baby you'll be forgetting. Declare that a baby can keep you occupied, but it won't stop you from caring.
Assure him that your romance won't run out - you'll have enough for both. When he has kids from a former marriage and has always been open and sincere about not wanting more, there is very little you can do. But to expect him to turn his back on you is not right.
Maybe his kids aren't your meat and your bones, but you still have a very important role in their lives. Stepchildren can be great loving and fulfilling, but if you had always wished in secret for a baby "of yourself", you might not have felt these positive aspects. Everyone has the right to alter his opinion, but you also have the right to be frustrated, especially if he has previously made you believe that he wants to have kids.
You' gotta be straight with him and let him see how angry you are.